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Family Member Checklist

Family members can provide support to their students as they make career decisions.

Support and Encouragement

  • Encourage your student to explore new ideas, expereieces, and career fields. 
  • Show tolerance when your student shares ideas and values which are different from your own. 
  • Really listen and validate what your student tells you.
  • Allow your student to learn from making a poor decision or failing at something.

Motivation

  • Encourage participation in career development activities without pressuring about timelines or checklists. 
  • Help your student to set reasonable career goals without insisting that your expectations be met. 
  • Ask questions that encourage your student to seek career information. 

Information Gathering and Sharing

  • Share the pros and cons of your current occupation.
  • Openly discuss the history of your own career path. 
  • Tell your student about various occupations. 
  • Help your student connect with appropriate resources that will enhance their learning about occupations of interest. 

Personal Insights

  • Help your student evaluate their strengths and weaknesses and discuss how they might relate to various career options. 
  • Compliment your student's accomplishments. 
  • Assist your student with identifying satisfying and well-matched occupations. 

Networking

  • Refer your student to friends/acquaintances who would be willing to discuss their occupations.
  • Assist your student with finding a summer / part-time / volunteer job that will allow them to explore a potential career field. 
  • Connect your student with your personal / professional contacts to find employment after graduation.